Today's Discussion...

I feel that the idea of 'normalcy' is just a method by which the ideals of a society are expressed. As discussed in class, to be normal is not necessarily representative of the 'average', but rather may be defined as what is hoped to be achieved. This is why the idea of what normal is varies from society to society, or from time to time. For instance, the ideal body of a woman used to be of one that was curvy/extremely healthy, representing the women from the wealthy class. The definition of what is normal nowadays, is very different. Who we look up to, who we see as the most successful of individuals, really influences what we see as truly being normal.

I find it extremely disheartening when people are disrespectful to those who are not grouped in this same category. We create stereotypes and have these perceptions of how people with disabilities are; if anything, I believe that the only way to overcome these misunderstandings is to relate to different groups of people. It is difficult to do so, especially when fear is presented alongside the misunderstanding. As was mentioned in class, this may be one of the reasons why in horror films today, the villain can be categorized as someone in the "other" category. Stemming off this comment, if we are unable to accept and understand the differences our society may hold, then we will never excel as a community.

By trying to relate to the difficulties and lifestyles of those individuals that are different from us, we can definitely improve how community works as a whole. A point was brought up in the discussion as to if we should change the structure of a building to make it more wheelchair accessible. I definitely feel that this is an initiative that should be taken. The individuals that this change would benefit are members of society just like anyone else. I feel that such changes are no different than improving the road system, parks, etc. If someone can benefit from such improvements, then we should definitely go for it. I understand that these changes may be costly, but I believe that in the long run, such expenditures would be a step in the right direction.

I honestly just believe that by making such minor changes, we can definitely making a lot of progress. This country is meant to be a place where people of all religions, ethnicites, beliefs can come and feel accepted and not threatened. By showing such stark differences in what advantages are given to those that are "normal" and those that are "disabled" in any shape or form, this country is not living up to what it is supposed to be representing. I hope that we can begin to accept people that are different from us, and use such achievements to become better as a whole.